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Kimberly Willoughby never felt good enough. Too short. Too overweight. She believed that everyone else deserved a good life, but not her.

It鈥檚 taken her many years and countless tears, but today, at age 48, she鈥檚 living the life she鈥檚 always dreamed about. But first, she traveled a road filled with hardship, addiction and, at last, recovery.

Growing up in Mount Sterling, Kentucky, Kimberly graduated from college, became a nurse, married and had two children. But throughout much of her life, Kimberly struggled with her first addiction: food. At 300 pounds, Kimberly underwent gastric bypass surgery in 2004.

Adapting to a new lifestyle, she was optimistic that her old habits would disappear. But in 2007, her marriage began to suffer. Kimberly filed for divorce and moved out. For six months, she experienced insomnia and drank every night. Kimberly and her husband reunited in 2008, but their issues were not resolved.

鈥淚 went home for the kids,鈥� she said. 鈥淢y whole world revolved around being a mom.鈥�

One day, Kimberly learned she would be a grandmother, but the good news came with a condition from her daughter: Kimberly would not be allowed to see her grandchild if she continued to drink. She started sneaking her drinking, hoping her daughter and husband wouldn鈥檛 find out.

In 2014, Kimberly and her daughter tossed around the idea of moving to Florida, but those plans changed when her daughter married a man in the military and they moved to a military base in Germany.

鈥淚 cried every day,鈥欌�� Kimberly said. 鈥淚 missed my kids so bad.鈥�

Kimberly 鈥� along with her husband, mother and stepfather 鈥� proceeded with the move from Kentucky to Inverness, Florida. She hoped that a change of scenery would mend her marriage and her outlook on life. For a few months, it worked. Kimberly did not touch a drink. But soon, she her marriage started to unravel again.

鈥淲e had nothing in common and he was very angry,鈥� she said. 鈥淚 kept thinking, 鈥楬ow am I going to leave now that we鈥檝e all made this move?鈥欌��

By 2016, Kimberly was drinking all day, every day. Kimberly found ways to drink as much and as often as she could. Before work. At work. In a closet. In her water bottle.

Things went from bad to worse when she started abusing prescription medications. Kimberly had chronic back pain from a work-related injury she suffered at age 19, and a doctor prescribed her Tramadol, a pain reliever. Around the same time, she had a surgery and was prescribed Percocet, another pain medicine. From then on, Kimberly took any prescription she could get her hands on.

Kimberly decided to quit her job as a nurse at a local hospital, but on her last day, she was caught drinking and had to complete a urine screening. She was reported to the Florida Department of 网红黑料 and was referred to Scott Teitelbaum, M.D., F.A.S.M., the medical director of the 网红黑料 Florida Recovery Center, or FRC, for an evaluation. In July, she grudgingly met with Teitelbaum, who recommended a treatment plan and explained that she had seven days to choose a facility for care.

Upset and angry, Kimberly decided instead enrolled in a six-week treatment program in Georgia. There, she stopped drinking but lied her way through therapy. She didn鈥檛 fool anyone.

鈥淭hey said, 鈥業f you鈥檙e not going to talk to us, then there鈥檚 nothing to work on,鈥� 鈥� she said.

Kimberly attended Alcoholics Anonymous, but she didn鈥檛 embrace AA鈥檚 mission.

鈥淚 stayed dry for 11 months but still wanted to be dead. I didn鈥檛 want to wake up,鈥� Kimberly said. 鈥淚鈥檇 drink more and more, thinking, 鈥榃hen I black out this time, I won鈥檛 wake up.鈥� Then, I鈥檇 wake up mad.鈥�

After months of not drinking, Kimberly started relying on over-the-counter diet pills. Instead of the suggested daily intake of two pills, Kimberly was taking up to 12.

Meanwhile, a storm continued to brew at home.

鈥淢y husband didn鈥檛 believe I was going to AA,鈥� she said. For a while, her husband would go with her to AA, watching her every move but not participating.

Kimberly started using Tramadol again. When she ran out, she started taking her dog鈥檚 medications.

She had to take a random urine drug screening on a Monday, but this time, she took a handful of pills the weekend prior, hoping to get caught. Kimberly reported for another evaluation with Teitelbaum at the end of July of 2017. She brought letters of recommendation from participants at AA, her manager, co-workers and her church to show how well she had been doing.

Teitelbaum called her personally to tell her that her levels were too high to have only taken a handful of pills over the weekend. Now was the time to come clean.

鈥淗e [Teitelbaum] got my drug test back and said my levels were through the roof,鈥� Kimberly said. 鈥淗e said, 鈥榊ou鈥檙e going to have to work on yourself or you鈥檒l never stay clean.鈥� I will forever believe that he gave me the opportunity to save my life.鈥�

Teitelbaum recommended inpatient treatment to the board of nursing where they contacted her with a list of three to four facilities to attend. This time, Kimberly was ready to participate in treatment. On Aug. 21, 2017, she was admitted to the 网红黑料 Shands Psychiatric Hospital and checked into the FRC the next day. Kimberly enrolled in the partial hospitalization program where she lived at the addiction treatment facility and was treated by Jamie Smolen, M.D., a 网红黑料 psychiatrist, and Jorelle Degen, L.M.H.C., a 网红黑料 substance abuse therapist.

Kimberly said the turning point came when her husband attended a therapy session.

鈥淗e was asked on a scale from one to 10 how happy are you with your marriage, and he said a six or a seven,鈥� Kimberly said. 鈥淚 deserve a 10. I want to be blissfully happy.鈥�

Her husband left that day 鈥� for good. Kimberly connected with a women鈥檚 advocacy group, and continued to work on her addiction and self-care.

On Oct. 3, 2017, Kimberly completed the recovery program and moved into a sober house. She continued to practice all of the recovery steps.

In January, 2018, Kimberly returned to work as a nurse. She continues to remain very active at the FRC and goes back one to two times a week to meet for after care. She鈥檚 also involved in an FRC reunion event and still sees Smolen. Kimberly stayed in Gainesville when the rest of her family moved back to Kentucky. Her divorce was finalized in February.

Today, Kimberly is employed, spends time with her Dalmatian 鈥淜atie,鈥� continues therapy, maintains healthy relationships, practices yoga, sponsors other recovering addicts and teaches a nursery class at her church on Sundays.

鈥淚 love my life,鈥欌�� she said. 鈥淚鈥檓 proud of the woman I鈥檝e become.鈥�